We’ve been sold a massive lie: that a corporate job equals security. Reflections Right now, platforms like LinkedIn are flooded with heartbreaking, multi-year job search manifestos. Millions remain trapped in the mindset that the corporate mothership will reward you with stability if you just follow the old rules. They’ve fallen victim to corporate Stockholm syndrome […]
Tag: Mindset Shift
A letter to Millennials and Gen Z
My writing usually targets Gen Xers and/or folks in their 50s and 60s near the end of their careers. But today, I’m writing a special letter to the kids and even grandkids of my target audience. Reflections The latchkey kids are aging, and the reality of their late career selves is a stark contrast. While […]
Financial Eggs in One Basket: Why Corporations Fear the Financial Backbone
Reflections As I was cleaning the farmhouse today, a task that always brings a sense of order to my mind, I found myself thinking about the bizarre advice I’ve been fed by others when it comes to professional reputation: “Don’t mention your side business. Hide your real estate activity. Don’t list fractional advisory roles. If […]
Rehabilitating a Neglected Homestead with Four Buckets
Reflections from Briarhopper Ranch Four months in, and we’ve officially survived the seasonal transition from “the last breath of autumn” to “stark winter” to the “is it here or not?” arrival of spring. When we pulled up to our new homestead, a few trees were still clinging to their fall wardrobes; today, everything is accessorizing […]
Taking Leave of Our Senses (And Finding Our Cozy Place) in Appalachia
Reflections Most of our inner circle has been remarkably supportive as we trade our Rocky Mountain yuppie life for a life-stage August season on an Eastern Kentucky farm. I’d like to think we’ve even inspired a few friends, in ever how small a way, to reconsider their own trajectories. However, the fact remains: some people […]
The Completion Myth: Finding Peace in a Dream Under Construction
Reflections It’s hard to believe it’s been more than three months already since we moved to Kentucky. We have such exciting dreams for this farm, but the to-do list seems so overwhelming. We have projects great (full renovation of the farmhouse, revitalizing the pond, fixing the driveway, etc.) and small (setting up our grow light […]
Quiet Skies
Reflection I was outside the other day and realized something pretty profound: It has been 2 months since I last heard an airplane fly over my house. Our old homestead in Colorado didn’t have many airplanes overhead, but we did have a few United puddle hoppers from Denver to Colorado Springs plus a handful of […]
Early Retirement: The Ultimate Career Flex
Reflection My LinkedIn feed can be a bit depressing these days. As if the layoff announcements aren’t enough, I deal with another sad phenomenon: Folks my age “career flexing” about the same stuff they’ve been posting about since their 30s and 40s. Careers have seasons. That I have learned. The same things that fueled […]
Sleep Better with an Escape Plan
A few months ago, I was a bit on edge. I knew that I was mentally done with my career and my husband and I talked a lot and dreamed together about “what’s next?” Yet I found myself feeling frustrated, like I was frozen with the pause button on, unable to move forward but not […]
Stepping Forward into Homesteading
Reflection Sitting on a dream I grew up in a gardening family. I loved summers, helping with weeding the garden and gathering the bounty of tomatoes, beans, peppers, sunflower seeds and more. My husband and I dreamed for years of having our own garden, but our busy corporate careers and my business travel schedule made […]